Pauseable Situations

Why do people get themselves worked up when they can prevent themselves from getting angry?Learn to live and let live, there should be no reason for unnecessary stress or agony. Live your life the best way you can. Practice what you preach and preach positivity and happiness. If you want to be happy, BE HAPPY, if you want good things to happen, then let them happen!
When something happens that upsets you, take a moment and pause. You can always change the outcome of an argument, or the outcome of your emotions, you just have to put things into perspective. Think of how you want something to go and it shall happen. Naivety is not the same  thing as being positive and thinking lightly. Think Light, Be Light.
Live Always, Love Always...Love strong, Love hard, Love always!

When you have that beginning kind of excitement and you think to yourself "I hope I don't ruin this". I can't hurt anyone the way I've been hurt, but damn if  I don't like you. To leave now would be better but I can't now...but I'll tell you the truth. How will you react? I don't know...As long as I don't break your heart we'll be good.

If we only knew...

Why is it that when you meet someone you automatically try to pick out their flaws? Is it because we as humans have been through so much in the past with relationships that we have this automatic wall built up for protection? Are we naturally judgmental? Maybe it's a mixture of all of these things. I feel like when I come across someone I'm interested in, I automatically pick out a problem. I don't like wasting my time nor do I like getting hurt. It'd be so much easier if we wrote out our problems on our Facebook profiles or Instagram bio's ''commitment issues'' ''mama's boy'' ''career obsessed'' ''un driven'' ''insecure'' and so on. Life would be much simpler if we were honest and cut straight to the point from the beginning. We would know who would be right for us and who we should pass on. This is just the beginning...